Our lab group exists within CCIB which itself is within the University. Each has its own set of expectations for members and we will abide by each but also supplement with our own code for behavior. Conduct guidelines for Rutgers University and CCIB are at the bottom of the page below. Please read those as they capture the same spirit as our code and provide a framework for how we should conduct ourselves. Our lab code of conduct is a set of norms to guide our collective behavior to make the lab a safe, welcoming, and equitable place.
Equity and Inclusion. We are, and strive to remain, a diverse group of scientists. To that end, we must ensure that the lab is a safe, healthy, and welcoming environment for all socioeconomic and religious backgrounds and racial, ethnic, gender, and sexual identities.
Kindness. Above all else, be kind. No amount of seniority, knowledge, intelligence, or ability excuses unkind behavior. Furthermore, mean and disparaging speech to other members of the lab or community invalidates the position of the speaker, regardless of the veracity of their statements. In other words, if you are unkind it doesn’t matter if you are factually correct, you are still in the wrong.
Advice requires consent. It is extremely rare that a student will be in a position to directly comment upon or control the actions of other lab members without their prior consent. What do we mean by consent in this context? Two lab members working together on a project consent to constructive feedback and collaboration on that project. A lab member presenting a practice talk to the lab provides their consent to receive feedback on their presentation. Absent such consent, even well-meaning advice should be avoided. The rare exception is if you observe behavior that could result in imminent harm. In all other instances, concerns should be discussed with the PI. If your concerns are in regard to the actions or conduct of the PI, then speak to the CCIB Graduate Program Director or the Dean of Students.
What to do?
The PI is the responsible party for the smooth operation of the lab. Lab members are always welcome to discuss the laboratory environment with the PI. That said, if you feel someone has behaved towards you in a way that violates the spirit of the above code, you may find the best solution is to calmly tell them. The point is to convey how a statement or action has affected you. Everyone slips up from time to time and what seems like a well-intentioned statement to a speaker might be hurtful to the recipient. Mistakes are not an issue but refusing to learn from them is. If someone tells you that you’ve overstepped, take a moment to process what they have said. While it is natural to feel the need to defend yourself, remember that 1) this person has expended emotional energy to tell you how they feel and 2) that they are telling you in the hopes to make the lab a better place for everyone. Please respond in that same spirit. If the issue cannot be resolved then consider jointly discussing with the PI.